Penny (she/her) is a queer femme Leathergirl who identifies as a slave with a sadistic streak. She has been in the lifestyle for 11 years. She is a patched member of the House of Trans Leather club as well as an associate member of the Knight Hawks of Virginia. She has been a community group leader in Hampton Roads Virginia since 2014. Over the past 8 years she has been involved in the founding and operation of 2 BDSM groups focused on lifestyle education. Penny is currently a Leader of Edge House, which offers educational and social events, play parties as well as monthly munches. She has taught classes for local groups in her community, as well as a co-instructor and a demo bottom for many classes over the years.

Over the past 3 years, across multiple social media platforms, Penny worked hard to establish herself as BDSM lifestyle content creator and Kink Educator. She dedicated time and energy towards virtual education, during a time where in-person education was not a possibility. This was accomplished by hosting weekly educational zoom classes and discussions with many prominent presenters from all over the world, as well as almost nightly online Q&A chats. Penny has a passion for community and strives to give back wherever possible. She has volunteered for several conventions as well as had the opportunity to be staff of several local events.

Topics of education near and dear her heart are, M/s & D/s dynamic structures, service oriented submission, operating dynamics with lifestyle limitations, polyamory, the Leather lifestyle and various roles and identities in BDSM.


  • Fantasy vs reality of D/s Dynamics
  • Vetting
  • Negotiations
  • Service submission